“Trust is the stacking of small moments over time, something that cannot be summoned with a command – there are either marbles in the jar or there are not.” – Brené Brown, Dare to Lead

Trust – I’ve learned that being trusted is among the most sought-after character traits.

The leadership books tell me that, as a leader, our company won’t thrive if I don’t earn your trust. Hopefully, you have confidence in my leadership because you’ve seen me behave over the years: sound decisions have been made, communication has been honest and transparent, and our stewardship of resources has been prudent.

I earn trust as a husband by honoring my vows and offering unconditional love.

I earn trust as a father by providing a safe environment, a guiding hand, and steadfast support.

A trusted friend listens, helps, and shows compassion.

A trusted teammate does the job assigned—and more, if necessary—to help the team achieve its goals.

Trusted folks show up on time, do their best, and keep their head in the present.

Brené Brown’s quote reminds us that trust is built daily—one “marble” at a time. If you want to be trustworthy, let it be embedded in everything you do.

-Howe Q. Wallace Jr