In his book, The Power of Habit, Charles Duhigg teaches how to break down the structure of a habit.Β There is aΒ cueΒ that triggers aΒ routine. The completion of theΒ routineΒ provides aΒ reward.
Habits can be quirky and inconsequential.
Creature habits:
Cue: My dog greets me when I walk into the house.
Routine: She jumps up until I pick her up, rub her back, and nuzzle her a bit.
Reward: We both enjoy the fellowship. Happens every time. Doesnβt contribute much to society. Makes me feel good.
Harmful habits:
Cue:Β Finish a meal
Routine:Β Fire up a cigarette.
Reward:Β Satisfying feeling that nicotine provides.
Habits that drive good results:
Cue:Β Alarm goes off.
Routine:Β Get up, get dressed, go for a walk.
Reward:Β Better health. Blood moving early creatingΒ moreΒ energy and awareness.
Hereβs a secret about habits. The βcueβ is powerful. If you have a habit that you want to change, you start by recognizing the organization of the habit. It has a cue. Identifying a cue helps you become mindful of managing your habit.
Likewise, if you want to create a new habit, identifying a cue that will push you to your new routine will help set the habit.
A few years ago, I decided I wanted to read through the Bible in a year.
I chose a cue (not because I knew to do so, I just got lucky). I love reading the newspaper in the morning. Itβs a lifelong habit. When I wanted to change my reading habit, I used the cue of reading the newspaper to reinforce the new pattern. I pledged myself that I wouldnβt read the paper until I had completed the Bible reading.
So, I got up in the morning, got my coffee, and replaced the routine of reading the newspaper with a different routine of reading the Bible.
Cue:Β Read the paper.
Routine:Β Read the Bible first.
Reward:Β Mind lifted with better material (scripture is better than sports) etc. etc.
Eventually, this became my new habit. I did it for three years before I changed it.
So, you want to create better habits? Become a student of your cues.
Recognize them. Create them. Study what routines they evoke. Match them up with a better routine.
Youβll see a difference.
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